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By Terry and Kenny Goode
Our son, Joseph, was born with three heart defects. He had open-heart
surgery at seven weeks to correct two of the problems. His first year was
filled with medical procedures to deal with the resulting medical
complications. Joseph also had chronic ear infections and resulting speech
delays. His emotional development was also affected by all the trauma.
Joseph was a silent baby who stared hard at everything around him. He put
all of his energy into predicting what would happen to him next. He only
felt safe with Mom and would not accept handling from anyone else.
Joe was evaluated and recommended for EI services on parent referral. His
speech therapist was also his service coordinator. She was highly competent
and procured massage therapy and developmental aquatic therapies in two
neighboring counties (due to lack of services in our own county at the time.)
She also had a physical therapist meet with us and make recommendations for
home activities, as Joe was borderline on this evaluation. We also had a
psychologist come to the home several times and teach us home interventions
to help Joe learn to trust his environment. (Joseph had many autistic like
behaviors.) After two years of intervention, Joe was ready to participate
in a small playgroup. After another year he was able to attend an early
childhood preschool for two years. After the first year (and four years of
intervention), he would speak aloud in class. Joseph attended kindergarten
in a regular class at the normal age with no services. The only service he
has needed since then is with reading literacy.
He has had three years of gymnastics, joined a basketball team, takes piano
lessons, where he performed in a recital, and is considered a medical
miracle. He also has a lot of friends, many social invitations, and enjoys
a life that would not have been possible without intervention. Joseph is
African-American, adopted at birth because his birth father was arrested
and received a 20-year sentence three weeks before Joseph was born. We
talk about closing the gap in this country. Our son would be at the bottom
of that gap if it were not for the interventions available to him and the
consistent conscientious efforts of everyone who worked with him. We
appreciate with all our "hearts" (quite literally) the difference it has
made for Joseph.

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